Have you seen this short film that has been viewed 5,368,555 times on Facebook (data was taken on 21 Mar 2017 at 10:02 am my timezone)? The hilarious cover of a cat on a man's back with the words "A cat massage?" caught my attention after a few friends tagged me on Facebook. Watch it if you have not.


It is one of the best short films I've seen lately - humorous, yet brings across a much-needed message by people with Down syndrome. "Not Special Needs" is an international campaign initiated by CoorDown - National Coordination of Associations of People with Down syndrome for the World Down Syndrome Day and I think they nailed the message.

What special needs does someone with Down syndrome really have?

Looking at K who will turn 6 years old this year, I sometimes forget that she has a disability. She has needs just like Ch and L, and every other child I have hugged and kissed and loved. She needs to eat, drink, rest and breathe. She needs to love and be loved, to communicate, to move, to be educated and to have a safe place called home.

Of course, if you ask her about her needs, she'll probably tell you she needs to watch TV and play "cooking". Every day.

Sure, she does require extra assistance from time to time - like a feeding tube when she could not swallow her food safely and wasn't eating enough to sustain her growth - or an oxygen concentrator to provide sufficient oxygen for her to live when her lungs were healing from the three pneumonia infections - or even the numerous therapies to help her learn better and grow in the cognition, physical, social and emotional aspects.

Aren't these merely different ways of meeting her fundamental human needs?

It is time to recognise people with disabilities, including Down syndrome, as equal siblings in our family of human diversity - as people with the same rights and same fundamental human needs as everyone else, even if they may require extra assistance or a different way of meeting a particular human need. - www.notspecialneeds.com

If we can see the needs of people with disabilities as just human needs, we will be able to see beyond the condescending labels that have been freely slapped onto them by the society.

If we can see their needs as just human needs, many babies who are born with disabilities will not be abandoned in the hospitals - unclaimed and unloved.

If we can see their needs as just human needs, we will be able to see people with disabilities as just, people.


Not special needs. Just human needs.

As people with the same rights and access to all that we enjoy too.

*March 21st is World Down Syndrome Day. A day where people with Down syndrome and friends who care about them come together as one voice to raise awareness of Down syndrome.

Esplanade's PLAYtime! series is interactive and fun, even for the accompanying adults!

Rochee: The Friendliest Cockroach

I am Rochee...

Mesmerising blue luminous balls that represent Glenny's tears

A sensory-friendly performance is meant to create a safe, welcoming and inclusive environment. All individiuals are welcome regardless of their sensory needs. However, changes have been made to the production and the atmosphere, and the experience might differ from a regular-setting show. 

Your child's shampoo has run out and the next bath is just a few hours away. You get to the usual aisle of your supermarket and grab hold of that familiar bottle of shampoo. But wait.

When was the last time you took a closer look at the list of ingredients stated on the label? How do you decide if that shampoo is most suitable for your kids? Are all kids' personal care products equivalent in terms of quality and function?

As parents, we probably go for hypoallergenic baby care products and avoid ingredients like fragrances, parabens, preservatives and the more well-known Sodium Lauryl Sulfate or its lesser evil cousin - Sodium Laureth Sulfate - which act to create lather that we all love.

But there are others, like dioxane and triclosan, in many of our children's (and adults') personal care products. According to a study done by the California-based Center for Environmental Health in 2013, it states that a cancer-causing chemical has been found in hundreds of popular brand shampoos. That culprit is "Cocamide DEA". In another report recently released (Oct 2016) by the Breast Cancer Fund's Campaign for Safe Cosmetics, it reveals the widespread presence of toxic chemicals in children's hair products, lip balms, makeup kits, face paints and nail products.

Labels revealed chemicals of concern in products marketed to children, including endocrine disrupting compounds, chemicals linked to organ toxicity and neurological damage, and ingredients that can be contaminated with carcinogens. - report by Breast Cancer Fund

Cost aside, is one shampoo or body wash, therefore, as good as another? Of course not!

Why expose your child to more hazardous chemicals if there is an alternative?

The good news is, there are many companies that are making safer personal care products for our children, using ingredients that are natural instead of synthetic ones that might have some harmful effects on our bodies. My kids have been using certified organic products from Mambino Organics and Cottoncubs to protect their dry and slightly sensitive skin. They love it and so do I. Here's why.

* Mambino Organics *

Mambino Organics baby care products - Made in USA

Co-founded in 2006 by Ms Maki Maodus, a passionate and ecological-conscious aesthetician who has worked in the natural skin and body care products for over a decade, Mambino Organics is a brand well-known for eczema, cradle cap, diaper care and scar repair. Every product uses pure and certified organic plant oils, herb and flower extracts in its products, and they disclose all the ingredients they put into each bottle, giving the assurance and relief for green-minded parents. The products are handmade (no mass production) without any severe heating or hydrogenating processes in order to ensure the nutritional content and potency of the natural ingredients used. Mambino Organics is USDA Organics certified.

Mambino Soothe Me Body Wash & Shampoo (170 ml)

The first thing I noticed about Mambino's Soothe Me Baby-Kids Body Wash & Shampoo is its ingenious self-foaming pump. Because there are no foaming agents used, the pump makes the oh-so-lovely foam for easy washing. The gentle head-to-toe baby wash protects even the most delicate skin and washes off so easily. Ch noticed that the body wash stings when it came into contact with her eyes, and that is only because the product doesn't contain numbing agents (additional chemicals). Although not overpowering, the smell needs some time to get used to, especially if you are not used to the smell of coconut oil on your hair/body product - but once dry, it smells good. Hair does not entangle much after wash. The body wash is effective for cradle cap.

How to Use
Massage one or two pumps onto damp face, body and hair, avoiding eye area, then rinse thoroughly.

Ingredients (INCI)
Saponified Cocos nucifera (organic coconut) oil, Saponified Olea europaea (organic olive) oil, Saponified Simmondsia chinensis (organic jojoba) oil, Vegetable Glycerin, Aloe barbadensis (organic aloe) leaf juice, Rosmarinus officinalis (Rosemary) leaf extract, Lavandula angustifolia (organic lavender) oil.

Mambino Baby's Best Daily Essential Lotion (146ml)

The sweet tangy orange smell of the Mambino Baby's Best Daily Essential Lotion reminds me of an orange smoothie drink which I love. It leaves a non-greasy feel and is absorbed into the skin very quickly. We find the lotion very effective at keeping the skin moisturised and soothing to L's dry itchy skin.

How to Use
Apply small amount of lotion and gentle massage over face and body right after bath or shower. For best results, use daily.

Ingredients (INCI) 
Aloe barbadensis (organic aloe) juice, Cocos nucifera (organic coconut) oil, Camellia sinensis (organic green tea) extract, Cetearyl olivate, Sorbitan olivate, Cetyl palmitate, Sorbitan palmitate, Olea europaea (organic olive) oil, Calophyllum inophyllum (organic tamanu) oil, Palm stearic acid, Xanthan gum (polysaccharide gum), Aurantium dulcis (organic sweet orange) essential oil, Anthemis nobilis (organic chamomile) flower oil.

Where to Buy

* Cottoncubs *

Cottoncubs baby care products - Made in Australia

It all started with a mother's love for her son who was suffering from eczema then. Staying in Sydney, Australia, Ms Bilyana Di Costanzo could not find any suitable cool clothing for her son under the extreme Australian summer heat, and decided to make him some apparel using ultra-light cotton voile. And Cottoncubs was born since 2008.

Now, Cottoncubs also has its own organic baby care range of products, specially formulated with the finest natural and certified organic ingredients from plant extracts and pure essential oils, to help babies, toddlers and young kids with sensitive skin. Recognised and certified by Australian Certified Organic (ACO), you can be assured of Cottoncubs' quality. (Do note that Cottoncubs products contain Parfum in their ingredient list.)

Cottoncubs Baby Shampoo (250ml)

Cottoncubs Baby Shampoo is a clear liquid which produces a small amount of lather after it's gently massaged on the scalp. It washes off quite easily and is soap and sulfate-free. We like the clean smell that lingers on the hair after a wash. Ch smeared some of the lather on her eyes and it does not sting.

How to Use
Wet the scalp/hair of your baby/toddler before use. Apply a small amount on the scalp/hair and gently massage into a lather. Rinse off thoroughly and dry with a soft bath towel.

Ingredients
Organic Aloe vera (Aloe barbadensis) juice, Purified water (Aqua), Coco glucoside, Organic Guar Gum (Cyamopsis tetragonoloba), Citric Acid, Organic Lavender (Lavandula angustifolia) essential oil, Parfum, Organic glycerine, Organic Lemon Myrtle (Backhousia citriodora) essential oil, Potassium sorbate, Organic Lavender (Lavandula angustifolia) extract, Organic Avocado (Pesea gratissima) oil, Organic Jojoba (Simmondsia chinensis) oil, Organic Olive Leaf (Olea europaea) extract, Organic Calendula (Calendula officinalis) extract, Organic Chamomile (Chamomilla recutita) extract, Rosehip (Rosa rubiginosa) extract.

Cottoncubs Baby Body Wash (250ml)

Gentle on the skin, Cottoncubs Baby Body Wash has a lovely lavender fragrance which also provides relief for skin irritations. Evening primrose oil helps to restore dry flaky skin conditions as it has a high amount of essential fatty acids. We find that the gel leaves a smooth film on the skin after rinsing.

How to Use
Dispense a small amount into a running bath for babies or simply apply directly onto your child's wet body and massage the gel into a mild lather. Rinse off thoroughly and dry with a soft bath towel

Ingredients
Organic Aloe vera (Aloe barbadensis) juice, Purified water (Aqua), Coco glucoside, Organic Guar Gum (Cyamopsis tetragonoloba), Citric Acid, Organic Lavender (Lavandula angustifolia) essential oil, Potassium sorbate, Parfum, Organic glycerine, Organic Lemon Myrtle (Backhousia citriodora) essential oil, Organic Lavender (Lavandula angustifolia) extract, Organic Avocado (Pesea gratissima) oil, Organic Evening Primrose (Oenothera Biennis) oil, Organic Olive Leaf (Olea europaea) extract, Organic Calendula (Calendula officinalis) extract, Organic Chamomile (Chamomilla recutita) extract, Rosehip (Rosa rubiginosa) extract.

Cottoncubs The Skin Soother (60ml)

Where to Buy
My First Shoots website 


As the main person deciding on the types of products we use at home, I am mindful of the family's safety and consciously seek safer food and food packaging, as well as safer cleaning products and toys. Knowing that the kids' personal care products are not laden with harmful chemicals, it gives me a peace of mind when they bathe.

*INCI refers to the International Nomenclature of Cosmetic Ingredients; is a system of names for ingredients of soap, cosmetics etc, and is largely based on scientific names.

Disclaimer: We were given the products mentioned in this post for the purpose of this review. No monetary compensation was given and all opinion are ours.

If the Lord is willing, many years down the road when our hairs grey and our memory fades, I'll read out this post to my grandchildren and great-grandchildren to remind us of the many blessed moments we shared as a family.

Sharing our family votes for the best nine family moments in 2016 - because the best nine is not just about the most-liked photos.

Photos from top row (left to right)

• We spent a whole day at Kidzania! From the time it opened to its closing time. I couldn't believe that all the three kids were still hyped up when we left, whereas I was exhausted just sitting around and taking pictures. It was an incredible experience as there was hardly any crowd and the kids tried out 11 establishments. Precious moments spotted when the siblings helped one another to complete the task, accommodated to K's walking speed by walking slower, brought K along to set up her bank account and collecting the 20 kidZos and many more. 
• We had a thrilling time at the Singapore Wake Park, challenging each other to see who will be the first to successfully wakeboard across the waters. Precious moments included cheering each other on when we couldn't make it to the opposite tower. Even K, who was watching us from the side, encouraged us and gave lots of thumbs-up. 
• We brought K on a bus ride because she started asking. Each time when we are in the car, she would point to the buses that pass by and say, "I want to go on bus." For a girl who has overcome so many challenges in her short life and has improved so much physically, it was indeed difficult for us to reject her request. The look on her face when she finally boarded one was priceless! So, so precious because it was her first. 

• We celebrated L's birthday at Zoom Park because he wanted the same experience that Ch had for her birthday. It was extra memorable because he had the company of 5 other friends and they expended so much energy trampolining for that one hour. 
• We finally saw enough weight gain from K and more progress at eating and drinking by mouth. Hence, we confidently pulled out her feeding tube! The family cheered for her when she took a photo with her tube dangling from her small fingers. And she proudly said "No more tube." Will 2017 be the year she accepts Gerber puffs, biscuits, cubed fruits and everything else?  
• We were pleasantly surprised with our luxurious family suite at the recent staycation at the Civil Service Clubhouse@Changi. A chalet it was, but it was more than the typical chalet we are familiar with. The kids watched tv whenever there was time and we had friends over for a barbeque too. A post about our experience to come soon.

Enjoy the little things in life. For one day you may look back and realise they were the Big things. 

 What about you, dear friend? What were your best nine family moments for this year?